So I have almost a week’s worth of events/not-really-that exciting events to blog about!
First off, I am writing my blog entries on Microsoft Word on my macbook at my studio so I won’t be sitting at the school’s computer all day long. It’s actually kinda difficult for me to type this since my fingers have gotten used to the French keyboards. On the French keyboards, the Q and A keys are switched, the M key is where the ; key is, and you have to press shift to type numbers and other simple things, like a period. Odd.
This week has been my first official week of working as an American assistant. For now, I’m observing different English classes of all different levels. So far, I’ve observed 7 different classes, at least one of each level (seconde, première, terminale: seconde is the youngest and terminale is the oldest, the ones that will take the bac- a huge final exam). So far, the classes have mostly consisted of a few minutes of doing a recap of the last lesson or correcting their homework and then there’s a Q&A session with me. Sometimes I’ll do a little introduction, other times I let them start asking the questions right away. Aside from the basics (name/age/where I’m from), the students have asked about my hobbies, traveling, my preferences in music, TV, and movies, some differences and similarities between the US and France, what I think about France, and also my family. I had forgotten that it’s pretty normal here to ask others what their parents do. The first time I was asked that question, I was caught off guard, but then remembered that it wasn’t impolite.
Some other interesting questions that I’ve been asked are: “Do you like Justin Bieber?” “Do you like Gossip Girl?” “Are you married?” “Do you have children?” “What do you think of Obama?” “What do you think of DSK?” “Are schools/towns in the US the same as they are in the movies?” “Does everybody have a gun in the US?” “Are you single/do you have a boyfriend?” Funny thing is that mostly girls have asked the last question. In my first class, after the first guy asked me if I was single, another boy then asked, “Ah, he is good looking, no?” Of course, I laughed nervously and didn’t answer the question, haha. Also, in the class today, after I said that I don’t have a boyfriend, one guy shouted out, “Yes!” Once again, awkward, nervous laughter. At least the teachers warned me that I would hear that question very often.
Each class so far has a different dynamic. I’ve been in classes with tons of quiet students, others with a handful of students who will do all the talking, and then today’s class was a lot louder, but they asked a lot of different questions. They were terminale, so they were a bit older and advanced in English. The teacher asked me if high schools were often separated into groups. Automatically, I thought of Mean Girls and gave them a little lesson on cliques- with the nerds, jocks, artsy people, and band geeks. I had to explain to them what each one was and what a marching band was. I showed them a video of a marching band (I think it was USC?) and they were amazed at how they did all the different formations. They then asked to see my high school, but the computer started spazzing out when I tried to google it. I guess France doesn’t like Henrico, haha.
One girl in the same class basically offered to be my French friend. She asked me if I like to party and then asked me what I was doing tomorrow. I said that I might go to the circus with other assistants, but then she asked me what I was doing afterwards. I could tell what she was getting at… and then she asked me if I had any French friends and when I said no, she basically offered to be my friend. I thought it was funny and a cute gesture, but I am her teacher and that would be weird and most likely inappropriate to party with students. I just laughed at the whole situation.
Speaking of which, I feel like I’m in a somewhat weird position when I’m at the school… maybe it’s because I don’t really feel like a grown up yet. But when I walk around the school, I definitely feel older than everyone, but some of the students do tower over me, but I don’t quite feel like a teacher… or even an assistant teacher. I’m pretty sure that others can guess that I’m an assistant since I’m younger than the teachers but older than the students, and I try to dress appropriately for the job. The dress code is pretty casual… I mean I saw one teacher wearing a tracksuit today and another was wearing a t-shirt the other day. I do wear jeans or trousers, and a nice-ish top with a cardigan (or at least that has been my wardrobe this week).
Also, yesterday we had an orientation for all of the assistants in Lille. Let me tell you, it was long (especially the morning part) and all the administrative stuff just gave me a headache (especially since people kept asking the same question). I had already done all of my paperwork (I think!) and the whole thing just made me start worrying that I forgot something important. I’m seriously hoping and praying that everything is fine and it all works out and that I will get paid at the end of the month and that I can get my visa validated… blah! The French really do have a TON of paperwork.
In the afternoon, we were split up into those who teach école primaire (primary school), collège (middle school), and lycée (high school) to discuss more useful things about teaching, the school, and observations. I actually found out some interesting things about the school system in general. I knew from taking some classes in college that France is all about laïcité. Headgear of any sort is not allowed in the classroom and anything religious isn’t permitted. Basically, if the situation arises where a student is wearing a niqab (Is that’s the one that’s not a burka?) or a rosary or something of that sort, I would have to ask them to remove it or send them to the principal’s office or have the actual teacher take care of it. From what I’ve seen so far, the school I’m at isn’t very diverse, so hopefully I won’t have to deal with any uncomfortable situations of that sort.
Since I had taken some French culture and immigration classes, this whole thing wasn’t completely new to me, but it’s still pretty surprising and very odd, especially in comparison to the US. In the US, there’s the whole freedom of speech concept and in the schools, you can see students wearing religious garb and it has never really been a problem, or at least as far as I know. The only problems that I’ve seen with clothes in the US is the basic dress code, where you’re not supposed to wear anything too revealing, no spaghetti straps, all skirts/shorts must be fingertip length, and clothes can’t have anything too offensive like curse words or anything inappropriate on them.
The most surprising thing that I learned yesterday is that it is not polite to drink water, particularly from water bottles, in class. This actually made think of one time in 9th grade history class where Ms. Hannegan forbade Morgan to drink from her water bottle while she was have a coughing fit in class. Apparently it’s rude, but it’s the teacher’s discretion if it’s in a class after sports of something of the sort. Of course, you can drink it in the halls, between classes, or in the teacher’s lounge, but not during class.
The school system here is definitely different than in the US. It’ll be interesting to actually observe it myself and compare it to what I know. I haven’t quite figured out how the schedules work. The days are long, can start at 8 am and then can end at 5 or 6 pm. Twelve to one is set aside for lunch. And I only just realized why at certain times the teacher’s lounge is full. The 9 am class ends at 9:50 and then there’s a 10 minute break, where the students are just outside in the courtyard or halls, some of them smoking, and then teachers sit in the lounge and have a little coffee or tea before the bell rings at 10. I think the same thing happens at 2:50 pm. Also, the day I arrived in Béthune, the teachers were on strike (surprise, surprise, people in France are on strike…). The government is cutting teachers’ jobs and so classes are growing larger and larger. That night, the English teachers who I was having dinner with told me that it’d be better for me to be a teacher in the US than in France. I mean at this point, I can’t say if I’d prefer one place over the other, but I still find it interesting that they told me it’d be better in the US.
So yesterday in orientation, I found out that I won’t be able to travel to England for Vacances de Toussaint (All Saints Day vacation/fall break, since it’s a non-Schengen country. Apparently since my visa isn’t validated yet, I can only travel to Schengen countries within these first three months. I don’t really understand why I can’t though. I mean I am a US citizen with a US passport. I should still be able to travel just to visit, as a tourist… I’m still a tourist. I mean, I won’t be heartbroken if I don’t get to visit London in a couple of weeks, but I would like to, but it just doesn’t make sense. Also, I don’t want to risk leaving and then having problems coming back. I still want to be able to work! I’ve e-mailed a few people about it trying to figure it all out. Sighhh. Oh well. Either way, I’ve gotta come up with a backup plan. I can’t believe my first vacation is in 2 weeks. Oh well, that’s one perk of the French education system!
I have gotten used to living in France, in the sense that I’ve gotten used to hearing French everywhere all the time. The other assistants and I do still speak English to each other, but I think eventually we’re going to try to put some French in there… somewhere. I do want to improve my French… I don’t want to leave here with a decrease in my French speaking skills. Although, we did agree that it’s completely different trying to talk to each other in French when we all have different levels, and plus it’s better for us to speak in French to others around here, who do actually speak French. Ah, which reminds me, in class today, they asked me if I could introduce myself in French. Of course, I asked the teacher at first, because others want me to speak only in English to the students. So I introduced myself in French and the class clapped. Haha, it sounds kinda stupid, but it made me feel good about my skills.
I still have to get used to the speed when people talk. I have to really pay attention when people talk and it’s hard if I can’t hear them well. Like on trains, if I’m completely attentive, I don’t understand what he’s saying. It’s times like that when I feel absolutely clueless. I wonder why and how I’m even in France and why and how I even got a degree in French.I felt like that too in the grocery store and supermarket (there’s one that’s a bit further away called Auchan… it’s basically a Wal-Mart super store!). I don’t understand every single word and I have to try to remember what the translation is in English, especially when trying to figure out differences between certain things.
I also felt really stupid when I tried to buy my own sheets for my bed (which by the way clash horribly with my curtains… I wish I had found cuter cheap ones) but I got the cheapest ones that weren’t super girly or didn’t have “boyish” stuff on them. I thought that the pack had a pillowcase and a fitted sheet. When I got home, I found out that the fitted sheet was actually a duvet cover. I saw the word housse but didn’t see the couette (comforter) part. Feeling so stupid, I went over to the discount store across the street and bought a fitted sheet. I was so happy when it worked out, but then I tried to put the duvet cover on the blanket that was already here in the studio. It turns out that the blanket left here is way to small, so the actual blanket doesn’t cover all of me (I had borrowed using sheets and a blanket from a teacher until I was able to buy my own). So now, I have to go back to the store to get a blanket that will actually cover my whole body. Also, I find it interesting, because here, they don’t have twin, full, queen, and king sizes like in the US. The different sizes are either for one person or two people. They have the measurements listed, but it also says for one person or for two people. Also in Lille, they had unisex bathrooms… weird.
So this is about 4 pages on Word… sorry it’s so long. But yeah, basically there are times I feel clueless, but I’m glad to have other assistants who are going through the same thing. Also, I’ve realized that I need to refresh myself on some basic American history, especially since some classes are learning about them.
I finally got my carte bleue (credit card—but apparently they don’t have a debit card and a credit card like in the US) and my insurance card for the studio! Yayy… more official stuff coming in! And for this weekend… the circus is in town (Les pistes aux étoiles!)?! And maybe I’ll eventually see the art exposition in town called Le Louvre in Béthune. Béthune is the cultural center this year, so I’m really excited to be here… and see all the different things they have around here!